Tips for PM Modi: When in China, make sure you don't hug or finish your entire meal

Narendra Modi is all set for his maiden visit to China as prime minister for what is considered to be one of his biggest diplomatic missions. The visit, starting 14 May, will focus on strengthening Indo-China ties through trade and economics, even as the two countries deal with the contentious border issues. When Chinese President Xi Jinping visited India last year, Modi took him to his home state of Gujarat and showcased its cultural heritage with statues of lions, Gandhi’s charkha and traditional swings. Jinping will be looking to return the favour and acquaint Modi with the Chinese culture.  However, many aspects of their culture are vastly different from those around the globe and when in China, one must try to do as Chinese do. So here are some Chinese cultural quirks that Modi should keep in mind when he is in China – Gifts – Modi is known to give thoughtful gifts to various dignitaries be it silk shawls or unique paintings, and this is a practice that he should definitely continue in China. According to China Highlights, giving small, traditional gifts is considered a nice gesture in the country. Moreover, the gift is considered an extension of the person and handing it over with both hands is a sign of respect. However at the same time, it is considered impolite to open the gifts in the presence of the giver. So if the prime minister is given something in return, he should keep it to himself and he too should accept it with both hands and say thank you.  Gestures – It is widely known that simple gestures can mean very different things in China.  For example, two thumbs up and tugging on the earlobe are signs of excellence while outward pointing and raised pinky are considered rude gestures, says Cultural China. In addition, the universally known head-nod is considered to be acknowledgement in China, and not agreement, according to the Center for non-verbal studies. Thus Modi and his entourage should be careful while communicating with the press and people of China.  Hugs – If his interactions with US President Barack Obama are anything to go by, Modi is known to be quite expansive with his hugs. However, Chinese people may be uncomfortable about physical contact with people they are not too familiar with, so one must avoid hugging, back-slapping or putting an arm around someone’s shoulders they do not know too well, according to China Highlights.  Food etiquette – Dining table etiquette, especially the correct usage of chopsticks, are considered particularly important in China. According to etiquetteinchina.com one must never stick chopsticks straight up in a bowl, as it alludes to the incense burned at funerals. Also one must never drop chopsticks down as that is a sign of bad luck. Another important thing to keep in mind is that one should not finish the entire meal placed before them as that is considered disrespectful. One should always leave a little on the plate to demonstrate the generosity of the host.