Is your partner insecure? 9 red flags to watch out for

Constant need for reassurance Insecure partners frequently seek validation of your love, asking if you care about them or find them attractive.

Jealousy and over-possessiveness They feel threatened by your friendships, workmates or even past relationships. They make a fuss if you spend time with others.

Overanalysing conversations Your partner often reads too much into your words or actions and worries about hidden meanings or intentions.

Checking your phone or social media Snooping through texts or tracking your online activity, seeking proof of loyalty, is a warning sign

Fear of abandonment They constantly worry you’ll leave them without reason. This might cause them to become clingy or needy.

Comparing themselves to others They may often compare themselves to your exes, friends or strangers, feeling they aren’t “good enough.”

Difficulty trusting you Insecurity can cause them to doubt your actions or loyalty, even when you’ve been honest and transparent.

Criticise themselves or you They might put themselves down or criticise you as a way to cope with their feelings of inadequacy.

Seeking control in the relationship They try to dictate where you go, who you meet or how you spend time to feel more secure.

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