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The Guysexual’s Guide To Gay Tribes And What They Mean
Aniruddha Mahale •A gay tribe is a social grouping of gay men based solely on their key physical characteristics. Also a feature of Grindr’s profile settings, tribes exist to help you find men you are attracted to, based on the quantity of hair on their bodies, and muscle on their bulk.
The Guysexual’s Guide To Handling Rejection like a Gentleman
Aniruddha Mahale •Make it a point to learn from every rejection — polish it and wear it like armour
The Guysexual’s Guide To Saying No
Aniruddha Mahale •Kartik has always been a 'yes'-man, but now a Tinder match who he had very little interest in has asked him out on a date. Read the Guysexual’s Guide To Saying No, to know how Kartik handles the situation
The Bare Naked Truth About Gay Men And Barebacking
Aniruddha Mahale •With the advent of PrEP – or a pill that makes it difficult (but not impossible) to contract HIV – it’s no surprise that more queer men are barebacking. It is your choice to have unprotected sex, yes, but you need to make sure you have all your facts in place.
What Does Your Favourite Dating App Say About You?
Aniruddha Mahale •The truth is every gay man has a go-to dating app, one that he likes cuddling up to after a day that’s wrapped in loneliness and long-forgotten email threads
No Country For Queer Voices
Aniruddha Mahale •Queer voices don’t necessarily need appreciation, they need to be acknowledged. We aren’t asking for a spotlight, we are just asking for a platform.
Dear Straight People, What Does Your Favourite Queer Eye Guy Say About You?
Aniruddha Mahale •Three seasons in, I love Queer Eye. Five fabulous (but not so fabulous that they intimidate you) gay men coming together to school bigots groom clueless straight men into better versions™ of themselves, without adhering to the tropes of being catty, conniving or cocky (as the media perceives us to be)? What’s there not to love?
To All The Girls I’ve Loved: Sorry for All The Times I’ve Been A Casual Misogynist
Aniruddha Mahale •It is difficult to identify misogyny in gay men, because we can infiltrate the thinnest of cracks; after all, we are supposed to be ‘brothers in arms’
Grindr Turns 10, But It Needs To Grow Up
Aniruddha Mahale •In so many ways, Grindr has become the online equivalent of a cruising spot: everyone does it, but no one really wants to talk about it
What We Talk About When We Talk About Gay Men And Casual Sex
Aniruddha Mahale •Equality for gay men is about having the freedom to do whatever you want to do, just like our heterosexual friends – our relationship with casual sex included.