Drop of Tear: Why are the British royals wearing pearls at the Queen's funeral?
Both Kate Middleton and Meghan wore pearl jewellery at the Queen's funeral. While Elizabeth II's love for the gem is known, legend has it that the erstwhile Queen Victoria wore nothing but black clothes and pearls for 40 years following her husband’s death
When you are a royal you do things differently. We have seen this in the last 10 days since the death of Queen Elizabeth II. There is a mourning dress code and there is morning jewellery, which women of the royal family have been seen donning these days.
Princess of Wales Kate Middleton, Duchess of Sussex Meghan Markle, Queen Consort Camilla, and women members of the royal family were seen wearing pearl jewellery to go with their black dresses during the course of national mourning for the Queen.
Apart from the obvious reason of the monarch’s love for pearls, the history of ‘mourning jewellery’ and how pearls became a part of it goes way back.
We take a look at what the royal women wore for the funeral and how this tradition began.
Pearls in memory of the Queen
According to a report by Daily Mail, the Princess of Wales wore a black ensemble, paired with a triple-string pearl necklace that was part of Her Majesty’s jewellery collection for the funeral ceremony. She also was seen wearing a pair of Princess Diana’s diamond and pearl earrings.
Meghan wore a black, knee-length cape dress. She accessorised it with a large black hat and pointed court shoes but opted to not go with the traditional black veil worn by other royal women. She wore a pair of pearl-and-diamond drop earrings gifted to her by the Queen in honour of their first solo outing together in 2018.
Queen Consort Camilla was dressed in a black coat dress with a black floral hat and a short matching veil. According to Independent, she completed her look with the Hesse-heart-shaped diamond jubilee brooch, which belonged to the Queen.
The tradition of wearing pearls as mourning jewellery started more than 150 years ago.
A tradition that dates back to 1861
After the death of her husband Prince Albert in 1861, Queen Victoria – the erstwhile monarch of the United Kingdom – suffered so much grief that she only wore black clothes for 40 long years, pairing them with pearls, which are said to represent drops of tear.
According to a report by Metro, she chose to wear strands of pearls for the rest of her life. A grief so strong that Queen Victoria’s decision to wear pearls has been taken forward as a tradition to date.
In 1878, as her daughter Princess Alice died, Queen Victoria wore a jet-black pendant set with a single white pearl, according to a report by The National News.
Jewellery historian Vivienne Becker elucidated what pearls meant for the Royal Family. She told Vogue, “It’s very much a tradition. It’s all about the suppression of colour, and also pearls are not glittery or brash. By choosing them, you are being low-key and respectful.”
Another reason why pearls hold significance to the royal family is that during Renaissance, these jewels of the sea were highly associated with wealth and social rank. And as Queen Elizabeth I was keen to portray her image as the Virgin Queen, she extensively wore pearl jewellery as they served the dual purpose of representing purity and chastity as well as extreme wealth and power.
However, pearls slowly came to be associated more with mourning only after Queen Victoria held them so dearly after her husband’s death.
Clare Philips, jewellery curator at the Victorian and Albert Museum wrote in her book Jewels and Jewellery, “The etiquette surrounding death became more complex and rigid in the course of the [19th] century… By the 1860s a widow was expected to dress in black for a year and a day after her husband’s death, wearing minimal black matte ornaments, usually of unpolished jet. Gradually she was allowed more elaborate mourning jewellery, then diamonds and pearls, and finally a return to coloured stones. Some widows, following the example of Queen Victoria, never returned to more light-hearted pieces.”
Queen Elizabeth II’s love for pearls
Keeping up with the tradition, Queen Elizabeth II herself wore pearls to the funerals of her father King George VI, her daughter-in-law Princess Diana, her sister Princess Margaret, and her husband Prince Philip.
But Queen Elizabeth II’s preference for pearls went beyond mourning tradition. According to a report by Express, there’s a sentimental reason attached to the late queen’s love for pearls.
The queen was extremely close to her father King George VI and the latter gifted her a necklace featuring three rows of delicate pearls, a piece of jewellery that was inseparable from her.
Elizabeth was so fond of the necklace that she had another one made for her, which she wore interchangeably so that the original one doesn’t wear out.
The mourning phas
The Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, has worn pearl-based jewellery on several sombre occasions. Starting from Prince Philip’s funeral last year where she was seen wearing pearl earrings to the mourning period of Queen Elizabeth herself, Middleton has sustained the tradition of wearing pearls during funerals.
More recently, she wore a pearl and diamond leaf brooch which belonged to Queen Elizabeth II along with a pair of pearl and diamond earrings. During a Saturday lunch with Commonwealth Leaders at Buckingham Palace, Kate was pictured wearing a pearl necklace and earrings that once belonged to the Queen.
Meanwhile, Meghan Markle was seen wearing a pair of diamond-and-pearl stud earrings, which were gifted to her by the Queen, on 17 September for the lying in state.
Queen Consort Camilla wore her pearl earrings with a four-strand pearl necklace and Princess Royal Anne wore her full Royal Navy ceremonial uniform with simple stud earrings, according to Vogue.
The dress code
Members of the Royal Family are expected to follow strict dress codes in the event of a death of a fellow member.
According to The List, members of the family who have not served in the military have to wear black clothes, the colour associated with mourning. The history of wearing black clothes goes back to the Roman empire, when people would wear dark-coloured apparel to let others know that they have lost a loved one.
All working members of the royal family are expected to wear their military uniforms. King Charles III has not authorised Prince Harry and Prince Andrew to wear military uniforms during the Queen’s funeral. However, Harry wore his uniform during the vigil on Saturday.
Apart from pearl jewellery, women are also supposed to wear veils during funerals.
With inputs from agencies
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